For many parents and grandparents, Diwali is about having the family together. When you can't be there, the message you send is the next best thing. These ideas help you write one that sounds like you.
What elders like to hear
That you remember. The rituals, the food, the smell of the house before the puja.
That you are grateful, in specific terms. “Thank you for teaching me to light the first diya” means more than “thank you for everything.”
That you are well. Parents worry. A line about how you are doing helps.
That you will be back, with a time if you can give one.
Examples to adapt
Happy Diwali, Papa. I still remember you checking every diya before lighting it. I am lighting mine tonight, and I will call after the puja.
Dadi, your blessings are the first thing I think of every Diwali. I miss your sweets, and I miss you. I will be home next year.
Using their language
Elders often feel most at home in their mother tongue. In ShareGreet you choose the narration language, so a greeting for your Dadi can be in Hindi or Gujarati and one for your Paati in Tamil. See Diwali wishes in Indian languages.
Making it easy for them to watch
Send the link to the relative who lives nearby, who can open it with them.
Choose a short length, 15 to 45 seconds.
Send it on the morning of the festival, before the day fills up.
Follow with a call, so the video begins the conversation.
More message ideas
From a daughter: “Mummy, I made your halwa this year and it did not taste like yours. I think the secret is you. Happy Diwali.”
From a son: “Papa, I watched the fireworks tonight and thought of you holding the sparkler for me when I was scared. Happy Diwali.”
From a grandchild: “Nani, I wore the kurta you picked. Everyone asked who chose it. I said the person with the best eye in the family.”
What to avoid
Questions that sound like pressure, such as when you are coming home or getting married, in the festival greeting itself.
Long forwarded verses they have seen ten times.
Apologizing for being late. Start with warmth, and save the explanation for the phone call.
A prompt to start from
“Wish my parents a happy Diwali. Remind them of the evenings we lit diyas together on the terrace, thank them for the home they made, and say I will call as soon as the puja is done.” Choose Hindi, Gujarati, Marathi or any language your parents speak, then review and edit the script before generating.
If your parents are not on your phone's usual chat apps, send the link to a sibling or cousin who can open it with them at the table.
Frequently asked questions
Can my grandparents watch without an app?
Yes. The link plays in any browser, including inside WhatsApp.
Can I add a family photo?
Yes. During script review you can upload your own photo or video for any scene.